Today it’s Mother’s Day in Sweden, and since I have a mother and I am a mother, I thought I’d write a post about that. I’d also like to mention my dad, who is no longer with us, and my grandfather who left us even earlier, but I think I’ll save that for Father’s Day even if it makes me sad thinking about all those who are no longer with us.
So, today I’d like to remember and thank all the wonderful women in my family who are mostly no longer with us. Some were mothers, some wanted to be but weren’t.
Thank you aunt G, who was such a wonderful aunt and who had a fascinating and varied life, despite claims to the contrary. Thank you great-aunts S, M, M, A and the two E:s, for being such kind and thoughtful aunts. I’d also like to mention ‘aunt’ E (another E) who I never got to meet, but who according to my mom was a really funny, cheerful and inspiring woman, despite a very difficult life.
Then there’s my maternal grandmother S, who I resemble a lot. I can still hear your voice in my head and I know what you would have thought or said about all kinds of things in every day life.
Also, my mom who is still alive and well and living with us. You were a wonderful mom when my sister and I were children. We’ve all had a difficult life and you may be a touch grumpy and harsh these days, but I can understand why.
I’d also like to thank my sister G who is not a mother yet, but hopefully will be soon. You’re my best friend and my role model. I admire you so much. This family would be nothing without you.